Which Structure Tier Are You Actually Built For?

A Belvedere Life Diagnostic Quiz

This is not about fantasy.
This is about nervous system compatibility, emotional containment, and sustainable relational structure.

Answer honestly.
Your answers reveal what your heart actually thrives under — not what looks attractive in imagination.

How to Answer

For each question, choose the option that feels most true most of the time.

Score your answers at the end.

1. When important decisions arise, you feel safest when:

A. We talk it through as equals.
B. My partner leads the direction after hearing my input.
C. My partner decides and informs me.
D. My partner already has the structure in place — I simply follow.

2. Your ideal daily life feels like:

A. Flexible, self-directed, low oversight.
B. Structured with some routines but still personal freedom.
C. Guided with clear expectations and accountability.
D. Fully structured with defined routines, permissions, and oversight.

3. When you imagine long-term partnership, what feels most comforting?

A. Mutual independence and shared leadership.
B. Having someone who organizes and directs our life flow.
C. Knowing exactly what is expected of me.
D. Having my life held and guided comprehensively.

4. How do you respond to correction?

A. Prefer discussion and compromise.
B. Accept guidance but want explanation.
C. Prefer firm direction — clarity is calming.
D. Correction feels grounding and safe.

5. Your nervous system relaxes most when:

A. I control my own schedule.
B. Someone manages shared logistics.
C. My partner manages my routines.
D. My life is intentionally governed.

6. Which statement feels truest?

A. I want companionship.
B. I want leadership.
C. I want structure.
D. I want to be fully held.

Scoring

Mostly A → Guided Partnership (Low-Structure Leadership)
Mostly B → Moderate-Structure Leadership
Mostly C → High-Structure Leadership
Mostly D → Total Life Authority

Guided Partnership

You thrive with gentle leadership and emotional collaboration.
You are not seeking governance — you are seeking harmony, safety, and presence.

Belvedere Path: Soft Authority, Shared Life

Moderate-Structure Leadership

You thrive with consistent leadership and clear life direction.
You are built for long-term, sustainable Female-Led living.

Belvedere Path: Lifestyle Leadership Core Tier

High-Structure Leadership

You thrive when your life has visible architecture.
You relax when someone holds responsibility for your routines and boundaries.

Belvedere Path: Relational Governance Tier

Total Life Authority

You thrive under comprehensive structure and containment.
Your nervous system seeks full life governance and intentional living design.

Belvedere Path: Comprehensive Authority Tier

In Summary: Hopefully, this quiz has helped to gain a better understanding of what FLR can look like in your relationship, and allows you to see there are no real 'rules' other than what works for you.